A lot of times we think that in order to have a strong foundation in a relationship, we both need to share common activities.
I love opera and my life partner loves technology and virtual reality — stuff I can barely wrap my head around — but what we both connect with each other on is the idea that we are both so passionate about something in our lives, and we love that about each other. He is heard and he is understood. It seems like this would be helpful, but giving someone so much information all at once is overwhelming and may leave him feeling uneasy about you.
Instead, let him earn knowing about you over time.
It can be easy to hear something he says and to immediately chime in with your version of doing that same thing. But this can make him feel like your primary interest is to one-up him in everything he does. Just like you would appreciate having your experiences valued, do the same for him.
No one can control whether a man will be a match or whether there will be a second date, but you can control how you show up and what kind of experience you create. A great conversation flow on a first date can be a game changer with a relationship-ready man who is out there wanting to find the love of his life, just like you!
One of my biggest successes that allowed me to find love with my man, Tim, was getting the answer to what was going on with me that had led to so many breakups. This assessment gave me that answer, and from there it was easy. I was able to work on that issue and move forward in creating my love life with an amazing man.
The information you will learn in the Dating Success Assessment is unique to your situation, and going through that process was exactly how I was able to do a in my love life and find the man of my dreams! You can find out more about it here. As always, I wanna hear from you. Leave a comment below. And share this blog with your friends.
Also, through your eyes is where you project sensual energy toward a woman. It should be used for that purpose too.
Every so often during the date, look into her eyes a bit more intensely and for longer than you normally would. Feel that sensual energy building up inside you and project it onto her. Look down at her lips again, then look back at her eyes again, and then look away. Women and men both have primal, subconscious needs which are designed to have us target who to breed with and who to weed out.
An average or even below-average looking guy can easily get a girl who looks like a supermodel, if he displays certain qualities that weigh much more heavily in attraction for women. And again, she is picking up signals of these things mostly unconsciously. I know dates these days can be expensive and add up! After the first or second date then you may want to have her contribute more. Also, dressing sharply instead of super casual and incorporating some subtle comments or stories here and there that demonstrate that you are successful and have goals in life, or at least en-route to being successful, is attractive to a woman and makes her feel safe and secure with you.
As strong and successful, and self-sufficient many women these days are or claim to be women still desire those heroic qualities in men. The ways this comes through is again with your confidence and assertiveness, but also believe it or not, through displaying a sense of humour and playfulness. We covered sensual eye contact before.
In addition to that, attempt to make her laugh at least a few times throughout the date and be playful with her. For whatever reason, women believe that if you can make her laugh, then you can make her you-know-what in bed.
Laughing is such an aphrodisiac for women. Laughing stimulates us and makes us feel excited by the guy! My goal is to be the insider for you, to stop the misinformation and how you can be your most attractive self. Every wise and successful person has a mentor or private Instructor that takes them from mediocre to mastery. This area of your life is absolutely no different, and the men that work with me are so, so happy they did a few months later.
Both parties should bring effort and energy into a date, yes. She needs to FEEL something — a spark. Just like you need to feel a spark for her, she needs to feel that spark for you. This is one big area of difference. So, what do you do at your job as a Nurse? How many days a week do you work? So Where did you grow up?