Especially if he is like three or more years younger, you may want to fall into this trap of relating with him like a big sis but you need to watch it.
Whenever your communication to him is toeing this line, back off. Even if you have sage life advice to impart, know when to just STFU.
Know when you can offer help and when they just want you to listen to them. Basically, this is like the one and only special rule that applies to this relationship that may not be very important in others. On the first date, nope, turn off.
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Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you. So just turn the phone off to remove temptation altogether. Turn your phone off. Smell like you bathed in perfume. You know how powerful compliments are. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better.
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Get our newsletter every Friday! If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future. Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say. Try to keep your conversation light-hearted.
Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun. Talking about your ex is dangerous territory.
If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short without appearing suspicious. Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead.
If you want your relationship with a younger man to not hit the rocks, there's a special rule you cannot afford to flout. Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you're not, but a girl might like Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating.
Turn your phone off completely. In the early stages of dating, you want her to be spending time with you because she likes you, rather than because she thinks she owes you something. Yes, in films they always leave it a couple of days to contact each other, but this is real life. The sooner you tell her what a great time you had, the better.