Everyone needs a way to differentiate among the personal past, present, and future.
Without an organized concept of time, you might not be able to build new skills, learn from experience, or even know who you are. In cognitive neuroscience, the subjective experience of time is called chronesthesia , which is defined as a form of consciousness that allows people to think about subjective time and to mentally travel in it.
We know essentially nothing about perceived, remembered, known, and imagined time. The NLP timeline is merely the reflection of the natural inner process you already use to properly sort the span of days, weeks, months and years. NLP practitioners discovered that most people represent time spatially, which is why we tend to point in certain directions when referring to the past or future. A series of inner images that represent the past and future usually span from left to right or front to back — or any variation thereof. An impressive variety of shapes, colors, and movement often accompanies the timeline.
Trained NLP practitioners learn how to help people discover their inner timeline, but why is this helpful?
Here are a few of many outstanding reasons to discover your timeline. Make important changes to your timeline that may transform your day-to-day life.
You may feel like you have a dim future, no future, or a wildly uncertain future. Someone with a dim future will literally see dimness in the future timeline.
Do you have a book or e-book that you can point us to? Originally posted by gregory View Post. It makes sense to use marketing tactics, after all it is an "ad". I haven't used NLP in an ad yet, but I have used variations of Neil Strauss's "I'm a jerk" profile which basically challenges the women as opposed to the normal walks on the beach and getting caught in the rain dribble most ads contain. Like mbxdad said, standing out.
I do think some people have given NLP a bad name, like Ross Jeffries old school pua guy , but as long as you don't go to that extreme and still sound like a normal but interesting person its ok. Last edited by Captain No Marriage ; , Originally posted by mbxdad View Post.
It's not only an appalling, manipulating, misogynistic degradation of women, it's also a dangerous lie that could easily have unforeseen consequences when the lie does not live up to the money spent on it. If you say something sexist at work, will you lose your job? So what of their legacies? For the most part, the term NLP has been misused in the seduction community. If you look at his diary, he planned to kill his own brother; the first three victims of his rampage were his male room-mates.
I'm intrigued by this whole NLP concept. I did some casual internet reading - it seems to have some new-agey nuances that would normally turn me off, but it also appears that there is some science behind it.
I'm definitely going to check it out further. If I ever decide to try online dating, building a profile would be my biggest challenge. Go mbxdad - hope you get a whole lotta love God no, I wouldn't read pick-up-artist stuff nor follow it. Seems so false and misleading.
What I tried was just normal healthy human interaction stuff. A friend of mine introduced me to some of the original work by Bandler. I'm no expert at all, and I only really pulled in one idea.
The idea around building rapport around a person's preferred communication style is to understand which mode connects with their emotions. Many people are visual.
They may say things like "Looks like To connect with them you'd want to use visual imagery in your communications. Some people connect through movement. To connect with them you'd want to use expressive hand gestures, touch them on the elbow etc. I don't know the readers of my profile so I had to hit all bases somewhere in my profile. For example if I wanted to share that I like to travel, instead of saying "I love to travel" who doesn't?
Pick up lines are overplayed, while the constant stream of information provided by popular dating websites makes screening potential partners easier than ever. For best results, these memories should be as powerful as possible. Then, at the peak of your experience, fire the physical signal you plan to use as your anchoring behavior.
Repeat this process over a few days to enhance the connection between your desired mental state and your anchoring behavior. In addition to creating your own anchors to improve confidence and assertiveness on the dating scene, you can also implant subtle anchors in the singles you encounter.