She will take his innocence as naivety, and he will take her negativity and want to show her light. She will fight the love that a Virgo man gives her, but in due time she will give in. What he needs to understand is that Scorpios take time to truly open up to people. What Scorpios need to understand is that Virgo men are picky when it comes to the one that they want, so if he chooses you feel special and know its REAL. These two will be mental playmates.
Most Virgo men are wildly imaginative primarily because their ruling planet is Mercury. This match will have no problem talking about anything from work, to what they ate an hour ago, to even about her pet duck Cotton that lives down at the local lake. This is what will tie them together; their friendship. He is pure and she is dark, so combined they bring evenness to each other. As angelic as these men are, they are drawn to dark things.
He understands things a lot better when they are tangible, but she will be able to teach him the things that are so wonderfully intangible. He concentrates on the day to day, but she will show him the big picture. The most important thing she will have to teach him about is sex. A Virgo man will think he has sex all figured out before he meets a Scorpio woman.
Oh my how you are wrong. See, to a Virgo sex is a physical act. It feels good physically. What he may not understand, until he meets his Scorpio, is that there is also the emotional and spiritual side to it. That is what makes it whole.
Just the sight of her will make him lose his train of thought. Like a moth to the flame. He will understand how to love with the body AND soul.
When it comes to being emotionally controlled, he will beat her in that department every time. His purity of thought and simplicity will be something she will learn from him. When they fight, she will go into a cold silence which will make him crazy. He wants to understand everything at all times. Just be there for her like a rock, and she will come around.
She will have problems believing everything you say, because Scorpios are naturally suspicious creatures. It can be exhausting at times always having to prove to someone how much you love them, but she is worth it. Look at her through the eyes of your heart, not the ones in your head and you will see her clearer. However, if you wound this woman too much she will leave. She may cry wolf a few times, but I promise you that once she has had enough, that is it. If this happens you will be wondering why and wishing you could go back so do it right the first time.
She will give you plenty of warnings before she leaves, so I would take head to them if you want her to stick around. One thing I would highly advise against Virgo doing is making empty promises to your Scorpio even if your intentions are pure. Remember the first thing I told you to meditate on? Her temper will scare him out of his pants the first time he sees it, but these two will have no problem talking their way out of their problems. He is one hell of a communicator, and will be able to talk her off of any ledge.
Plus, they are more friends than anything. Friends always make up…. He will try to make her understand that his love for her is true and pure. She will try to make him start loving with all of his heart and soul, and to make him understand that love conquers all. Slow your mind Virgo and feel. If you both do not reach the destination of where you want to get, I promise you that you will learn beautiful lessons from one another that you will never forget. If you do make it, I envy you. Enjoy your similarities and differences every day because you are a truly beautiful match. What a beautiful post Ms.
I'm a Virgo Woman btw…but my husband is a Scorpio Man which is in reverse to yours, hehe …hope you can also create a post for our combo…Thanks! Thank you for your kind words Lisa. I would absolutely love to write that post for you. Thank you so much for reading SSS. Wow…this post fits my mother which is a Scorp Nov. Anyways, is that Virgo guy you mentioned, the father of your beautiful Cancer children?
No he is not. I actually don't have children. He is definitely one of the great loves of my life, but that is where it ends. I hope your parents have a beautiful and healthy relationship. I love your Gemini curiosity! Don't ever apologize for it.
Thank you for following SSS, it means so much to me. I love my readers xo.
I am a Virgo female with a Scorpio man. That was a really amazing post. Thank you for putting it out there…. Was a very interesting read, was good to see things from your perspective. I'd be happy to write something from the other side of the table if you are up for it virgo man here. Im a virgo woman and hes a scorpio man My feelings for him will never change But now im just confused out my ass.
Im tired of compromising all the time And he is the promise breaker in our relationship Meeting his friends and family was revelational He seems like a master minipulator and oppurtunist. We communicate very well But i noticed a pattern, out of nowhere he gets very cold and dosent feel any shame about using exstremly poor excuses to validate his change of heart.
One day i noticed the motions beginging again. I let it take its usual coarse because he always comes back. But this time i told myself something has to change. I wont be shut out without warning without a proper reason for another year. I am not a hamster so easily amused and ok with repetition.
As if i committed the most unholy act to him. The love forever in my heart attacked me with words of hate and regret. I told myself i honored respect and praised this person the best i can and here i was being punished because he has a wondering eye that needs to look closer. I dont understand why after all this time he thinks he cant be honest. Go do what you want to do i will always be here but dont come at me from the left and right Then casual come in from the front and pretend none of it happened.
We are not very comfortable or friendly at this point. But no this did not stop him from hitting me up for sex on my birthday. A Scorpio woman can be taken as every Virgo man's secret fantasy. The romance and intensity of passion is great, often tending to excess. Sex is a strong focal point in this relationship.
There is nothing in the world that is as exciting as conversations that are so intense and so challenging for their minds. One thing you missed Desire, is the fact that it is the nature of the Virgo to give "empty promises", we don't know another way to give it all to the one we love. Their parenting style is also similar and hence they come across as one and strong parents to their children. Thank you for putting it out there…. Take our free "Star Sign Compatibility Quiz" to instantly reveal your compatibility score! Scorpio women have an active fantasy life with respect to sex, but it may be difficult for Virgo men to accept or go along with her ideas.
There is a high degree of erotic attraction here that both Virgo and Scorpio enjoy but sometimes, a Virgo man may not be able to match the passionate side of Scorpio woman. The wonder of their lovemaking will draw them together. As long as their relationship is productive, such as attaining goals or setting up a family, they will have a good groundwork for their relationship.
They share a love of beauty and place great importance on their home.
The parenting style of a Virgo and a Scorpio is similar. Both have high expectations of themselves and of their children. Virgo's planning and Scorpio's strong determination can take them to new heights. They are devoted to their home and family. With little adjustments and a lot of understanding and trust, the Virgo man Scorpio woman alliance can turn out to be great. These two can be exceptionally devoted friends if they choose to. Virgo can provide practical view of things to the Scorpio, soothing the enormity of her concern with the precise details that the Scorpio might not even think about.
The Scorpio woman can provide emotional support to a Virgo man and push him forward in his career. These two have plenty to talk about, as friends, and are probably at their best in this function. The couple would face no paucity of topics for indulging in intelligent and rational conversations. Few Words of Caution. Both Virgos and Scorpios love to be in control. The problem starts when their definition of correct and perfect does not match. The Virgo man should keep calm when the Scorpio woman becomes temperamental and irrational.
Most importantly, he should never test her jealous and possessive nature for his own good. The Scorpio woman might feel offended by the criticizing and pecking nature of her man. She should keep in mind though, that his need for perfection and planning can turn out to be beneficial most of the time. To work out matters, it would become important to communicate effectively and keep love above all things.
Scorpio women are often quite guarded, and it takes them a long time to trust and warm to a partner. Yet, both signs are patient, and neither will rush the other. They will develop a strong friendship which will last a long time until one or both of them finally admit their feelings for the other and take the relationship to the next level. A Virgo man and a Scorpio woman are generally compatible sexually, but a Scorpio woman will generally want more in the way of intensity and frequency than a Virgo man will.
This could cause problems if the couple is not careful. Virgo men tend to be rather conservative, and they can be a little insecure when it comes to their sexuality. Scorpio women, on the other hand, melt completely in the bedroom. She will want her partner to take charge, but that may be difficult for a Virgo man. When he does take charge, he might do so in a way that feels rather repressive to her. While Scorpio women have a reputation for being seductresses and being strong and aggressive, they can be surprisingly sweet and gentle when it comes to sex.
She can use that sweetness to help her Virgo man to get past his insecurities. Scorpio women have an active fantasy life with respect to sex, but it may be difficult for Virgo men to accept or go along with her ideas. The best thing for her to do is to be patient and let her Virgo man proceed at his own pace. With respect to the Virgo man, it is important for him to develop self-awareness with respect to his own insecurities and to lighten up a bit if he is to be able to please a Scorpio woman.
He will also need to let go of his tendency to be judgmental in this area. Sex is supposed to be fun, and if he can do his best to remember that, things should be fine. Virgo and Scorpio are very compatible. They have many common personality traits and can complement each other. There are significant possibilities for a happy marriage between a Virgo man and a Scorpio woman.
Virgos are intelligent and sharp. Scorpios are strong and determined. These two signs have much in common, such as honesty and integrity, as well as a thirst for knowledge and perseverance. Virgo man and Scorpio woman will be friends as well as lovers, and they will defend themselves from external threats. When they have difficulties, he can help her to talk about what is going on and to see beyond her emotions. They share a love for their home life, and they both have high expectations for themselves and their children. Virgo is affectionate and is a good husband and father.
Although a Scorpio woman will find that he is not very passionate, she will learn to make peace with this over time. Virgo man and Scorpio woman are two individuals who are dedicated to their home and their family. With small adjustments and a lot of understanding and trust, a Virgo-Scorpio alliance can be significant and everlasting. This is a perfect combination for projects related to money, and there is a high probability that Virgo men, Scorpio woman couples will enjoy working or making investments together.
They are both hard workers, and they have similar values. In general, though if they take on a project together, they should either each take on separate aspects of it or let her lead. The reason for this is that the Scorpio woman will have a good sense of the big picture, and the Virgo man can get bogged down in details. If he tries to lead, he will not be able to stop himself from micromanaging the project, which will drive her crazy.
Once a Scorpio woman starts something, she will want to keep moving on it until it is done, and the last thing she will want is for him to interrupt her to perfect a small detail. While a Virgo man and a Scorpio woman are generally compatible, all couples have disagreements and fights.