captain.prod.leadereq.ai/eta-y-despus-qu.php Who knows, you might end up falling in love with martial arts too — and that might take your relationship to greater heights. After all, a couple that kicks together, sticks together! The start of a new year is a great time to reflect on the things that occurred during the past year.
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The day that Muhammad Ali, formerly known as Cassius Clay decided to be a boxer was the day the world found itself a new hero. As a young African-American boy seeking out revenge for his…. Whether fighting skill is attractive to an individual, I can't say is right or wrong, it is simply an opinion. I just figured I'd share mine. Well, I see a distinction between most sports golf, tennis, soccer, etc , in which the goal is to get a ball somewhere and MMA fighting, in which th goal really is to hurt another party until they give up.
The former seems, to me, to be a pretty amazing feat of skill. The latter still seems amazing, but also really really violent, and I'm not down with that in what my boyfriend does for a living. But if they never get to know the person then they have no clue. Well, I want a man who could defend himself.
But that's a hypothetical, and it's totally totally different from a guy who does fight, on a regular basis. There are often questions posed that go, "If we were out and somebody threatened you or me physically, would you find it hot if I fought it out with him? Here you are talking about instinct and primal urges. Humans evolved in such a way that it was clear that muscle was not important, intelligence was.
So if you want to go the dubious evopsych route, you could say it's still instinctive to want your man to be able to talk his way out of a fight with a dumb ape. Violence sickens me and I would have a really hard time knowing it's what you do all the time. I don't view it as me hurting someone else. I look at the incredible amount of skill and technique that is shown in every punch and kick. I look at the amazing ways that we can use our bodies, and the science behind fighting fascinates me.
It's the hardest thing I've ever done and being able to constantly challenge myself and see what I'm able to overcome is an amazing feeling.
I was terrified the first time I walked to that cage and being able to overcome that fear made me a stronger person mentally and emotionally. When two people step into the cage it's not because we hate each other and want the other to suffer. It's because we have worked hard and want to see how good we can be at the sport we love. When the cage door closes all the glamour and bull shit goes away.
It's two fighters going head to head to see who's the best. Sure we get banged up in the process but when you push yourself through that pain and that fear and you come out on top, the feeling is indescribable. If you punch someone in the face and their face swells up, you are hurting them. That's scary to me. It increases the chances perhaps only in my head that you could punch me in the face. I would rather not date anyone for whom aggression is a regular part of their life.
Childhood experiences have made it so that I react with anxiety when I see male aggression. Plus, I'd rather not date someone who stands a good chance of getting seriously injured on a regular basis. I assume that as the girlfriend of an MMA fighter, I would be expected to attend fights, hear about fights, etc. I also just, on principle, don't want to date someone for whom aggression is a big part of their life. I'd stick by my partner if he chose to become one. But I don't think I'd start dating someone who already was a fighter.
My partner would love to become a pro fighter luckily he's entirely too unfit to do so at the moment. Every time he says it, there's a twist in my gut. I know he'll never become one so I don't say anything negative. But it's still a scary thought. I can't even imagine the horror I would feel if I was Alan Belcher's gf and was watching that fight where it looked like his eye was just done - I was really on edge. I couldn't stomach you coming home so incredibly hurt and feeling helpless. When I hurt my back lifting my bf took it hard and I take it hard any time my bf hurts himself lifting.
I think that woman has not got a good understanding of MMA or the culture that mostly goes with it. That's a little extreme. It's not like you beat people up for shits and giggles. She sounds like kind of a moron. It's not a deal breaker, but my hesitation to date people who are professional athletes, MMA, Soccer, Basketball, what have you, is that you can't excel to a professional level in your sport without sacrificing something. Usually that something is intellect. I couldn't date a stereotypical dumb jock.
I'd totally fuck one, but I'd keep it light. So personally, I don't care if that's what you do. As long as you can hold a conversation and be interesting, I really don't mind. Plus the idea of bandaging a guy up after a fight has always been a weakness for me. There are tons of great athletes out there who are extremely intelligent. Yes I've made sacrifices. I don't do things like drink, use drugs, eat junk food, and I spend hours in a gym everyday. I don't understand how this makes me less of an intelligent person?
What do you do with your time that makes you so intellectually superior to professional athletes? I did not say that.
Sometimes they make other sacrifices other than education, and I know there are smart jocks. It's no problem, I've just gotten that a lot. People hear that I fight for a living and assume I'm a dumb brute who doesn't know anything but fighting. There's the fact that getting punched in the head isn't good for the intellect, no matter how you look at it.
A lot of incredibly intelligent people compete in MMA, but there is still a danger involved. I wouldn't have a problem with it. I was in martial arts for a long time and loved the fighting. Still love it to this day. I would not say "no" outright. I'm not so fazed by the career choice, as long as it doesn't get brought into the relationship violence-wise.
I would have no problem with it but it would definitely be a learning experience for me.
I wouldn't want to see my partner getting beat up but I know it's part of something that they enjoy. I would be warry of other things that are possible to go along with MMA fighters lots of aggression, propensity to have to show their masculinity, etc but a lot would depend on the person and how I get to know them. I have a friend who fights and he's a great guy and is like an older brother to me. It's not an automatic dealbreaker, but would take some time for me to learn how it affects the relationship. I get what you are saying but you say that fighters may have a "propensity to have to show their masculinity" which I've found to be a common misconception.
Myself as well as all of my friends most of whom are fighters feel no need to show our masculinity. Many men will use fighting as a way to prove that they are tough and manly, but we already know what we can do and have nothing to prove. Guys have come up to me in bars and wanted to fight me because they here I'm a pro fighter.
I have no problem brushing them off and it doesn't bother me when they call me a pussy. I know I can fight I don't need to get into street fights to prove that. Sadly not everyone involved in MMA thinks that way, especially since it's the currently most macho form of martial art. Most guys I've met who were open about being into MMA as in, not just watching it would go on and on about how non-aggressive they were and how in control they were yet three beers later they were ready to beat some guy up for standing to close to them while queuing to get into a club or looking at them the wrong way.
When I was younger Muay Thai was pretty popular among the "cool" and "macho" guys in my hometown and similar patterns of behavior could be seen in a lot of the Muay Thai practitioners there…. That's why I said possible things to go along with being a fighter. Being pro I understand there's usually no need but I know some guys go into fighting because they like the violence.
I don't automatically think a fighter I would meet is like that but you sometimes wonder and the people around you wonder. It would take me getting to know the person, like I said, to come to any conclusions about them. The way she said it makes you sound like you announced you were a criminal thug instead of what would be considered a trained athlete.
I don't think that she has any clue what you actually do. I think it's bit silly for her to assume things about you that quickly, I would probably ask more questions at the very least, but she didn't. Maybe she wasn't interested.
Maybe she was just tired, who knows. I'm not going to try to make assumptions about why she acted the way she did. However, if it were me, I would definitely at least give it a shot. I am personally becoming increasingly interested in MMA and boxing though, so that may have something to do with it.
So what would be the main pros and cons of dating mma fighter? (In order to finish on a high, these have been presented in reverse order!). He gave reasons to not date an MMA fighter and I did not agree with Dating an MMA fighter is a unique experience and requires a tough.
I wouldn't, but only because I have high anxiety and the concern for safety would drive me nuts pretty quickly. I have known some MMA fighters that were very sweet, wonderful people. I wasn't even dating them and I stressed about if they were going to get injured.
Too much stress for me. I do think it's an interesting sport though. I couldn't do it. The idea of my partner being hurt, our attacked would be far to much for me. Plus the idea of him using violence against someone else would scare me. I would have to say no. I couldn't date a fighter of any kind, save perhaps fencing. Sure, if I wanted to date him and he was an MMA fighter, then fair play to him.
I know a guy who does MMA and it's cool hearing about it from him. My SO was a boxer when we started dating. He did it for fun though, and I must say it was hot. He has a bad back now though so doesn't do it anymore. Arms are my favorite, and his were just omg. I'm a martial artist, although I prefer the art part of it more than the martial. But yes, I'd date an MMA fighter. Hell, I think it would be great, maybe he could teach me to spar better I'm not very good , and teach me better footwork and technique. It would be something we could do together. I've seen people get thumped on enough that I think I could handle watching him go into the ring a fight, and then probably get bloodied up on top of it.
All part of the ball game. I'd just patch him back up, kiss the boo boos, and encourage him for the next fight. In my art, I've trained with a lot of MMA and former MMA fighters, and they were all significantly more arrogant and sexist than other men I trained with. I don't want to assume that all MMA fighters are like that, but I haven't had good experiences with them. But if I met them, got to know them and liked them, and then found out, I wouldn't mind at all. I dated a guy who use to do MMA for fun and had no problem. He competed a couple of times but not pro.
I never had a problem with it. If you're passionate about it, why would I judge you? Out of curiosity, where do you live you can just say the general region of the world if you're uncomfortable with saying specifics. I have a unique insight into the world of fighters because of my hobby. I live in and train in MMA hotspot and they are basically treated like rockstars where I am.
I spend a lot of my spare time at Tristar in Montreal so I see this stuff first hand. These dudes have no problems getting dates. There's a guy we affectionately call Not because he looks like a character from the movie or anything because he kept a running tally of the women he banged and now cannot shut the fuck up about how he's "taken down" his words over women. I also know of several of dudes who basically dumped their long term girlfriends once they made the UFC just because they wanted to bang 9's and 10's all day.
As long as you were a nice person with an idea of what you might want to do when injuries or age get to you then why not! While I think it would be difficult to watch someone I care about get beat up or beat someone else up, I do admire the dedication that I think is a hallmark of anyone in that profession. I don't think anyone really chooses to get beat up for a living for the money, they do it because they have a passion for the sport, which I think is admirable.
I would take a fist to the face for money, but it would have to be a lot of fucking money. You guys do it because you love it. I don't get it, but I respect it. I don't think dating a pro MMA fighter is any different than dating a pro football or hockey player, it's just way more badass. It's just another professional athlete, with a lot more contact. I would worry about possible brain damage the risk of which I know isn't as severe as some other sports and cosmetic damage from fights.
I would also worry about protein farts and what our sex life would be like during training. I have dated a pro MMA fighter and loved it!
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It was sexy watching him beat the shit out of someone then come off the stage and kiss me with a bloody lip. He was the sweetest gentleman outside of the ring and that's all that mattered. Nah, lightweight in boxing is lbs. That's a pretty significant difference. I would have said no, except I met a guy a few years ago, and he changed my mind. On top of being one fine dude, he was also really gentle and caring IRL. He was a really non-violent guy, well educated, and was a perfect family dude. That being said, I got physically sick when he showed me a video of him fighting.
His wife has refused to ever watch him fight, and I can see why. Of course, part of it's for purely selfish reasons: I need to get back into martial arts and in better shape, and I'd much rather do something like that than the Y. A pro MMA boyfriend would be perfect. For me at least there is quite an internal schism - and I suspect I'm not unusual in this way.