The "weird" circumstances of your first get together? I didn't get what was "weird" about them. It was a friends cousin not your cousin, so where exactly was the weird part?
Go on a date, maybe something will develop, maybe not. Like with every other date on the world.
I think a straightforward "I would have asked this sooner but I was out of town for a few weeks: Would you like to go on a date with me? Come on, brother- you know this isn't true, and work it to your advantage. Write her a short, handwritten letter, to the effect of "I really enjoyed our time together, I'm out of town and not very reachable, but I'd love to get together with you when I get back.
Being in a relationship with your friend's cousin can be complicated but not even for If you really value the friendship you have with your friend then many How bad is it that I'm dating my best friend's cousin and she is dating my cousin?. Let's say you introduce your cousin/sister/brother to your friend, and they start seeing each other a lot and hanging out (sometimes without you).
I wouldn't let the fact that she is your friend's cousin affect your actions cousins are different than sisters. Treat her like any other girl you meet and feel a connection. While caddis' advice may be right for certain kinds of family or culture: In my family hispanic, if, again, you'd like to feed stereotypes my cousins are as close to me as my brother.
If one of my friends wanted to date one of my cousins he would if he were smart treat the situation just as he would if he were dating a sister. Whether your friend and his cousin are very close or not is an empirical matter. I just thought I'd point out that the picture is not necessarily as clear and easy as Caddis makes it out to be. I should have just added this to the end of the last comment, sigh. I don't think there is a difference betwee the way you start a casual relationship and the way you start what might be a serious relationship.
You simply ask her out. My best friend didn't talk to me for a while so she "wouldnt be rude to her cousin" but me and her are the best of friends and he's over with. If you really do like the guy, you. Should check is he likes you through being a gentleman and it's normal for guys toe flirt with other girls, just make sure he doesn't flirt with every single girl he sees, otherwise you might end up being hurt Hope it helped.
I have the almost exact same situation. I did all that an my best friends cousin and I are dating happily engaged. Dating My Best Friend's Cousin? Are we a match? There is this beautiful boy who I think as I crush on me but for one, I'm not sure and second, I'm his cousin's best friend After my last relationship, I'm still trying to figure out what went wrong and what is it that I don't like about the person who I'm dating.
Feb 5, 18, 0 Just because you don't care about your cousin doesn't mean other people don't.
She gets to choose if she wants to date you, not if her brother and cousin allow it. Jan 20, 12, 1 0 Buffalo NY. If I call someone my friend, it means they've passed a very high standard of trials in their dedication to our friendship. Did you talk about any music you both like? February 14, 4:
Plenty of my cousins are my closest friends. If you care about your cousin, then you'd care if your friend dated them just as much as a sibling.
Jan 27, 17, 1 1, 36 South Carolina. It would be really weird, but if they were happy and this was someone I really trusted as a friend , sure. Totz Member Sep 17, Feb 9, 1, 0 0 I dated my best friend's cousin a while back, and nothing bad come out of it. Spoiler Except when she dumped me a few years later. Gruco Banned Sep 17, Jun 10, 5, 1 0.
If they got along then hell, I'd be happy for 'em. Shins Banned Sep 17, Mar 5, 4, 0 0. Aug 4, 1, 0 0. Fuck no, it just makes thing awkard. Jun 27, 7, 0 0.
I signed my friend's cousin's boobs once in high school. He didn't seem too thrilled about it. Shawsie64 Banned Sep 17, Mar 27, 4, 0 0. I fucked my friends cousin then his sister. Full Recovery Member Sep 17, Jan 2, 12, 0 0. Why the fuck would I care if a friend of mine banged my sister?
LCGeek formerly sane Sep 17, Nov 1, 12, 2 0 Depends on which astral plane you're reffering to. I have 10 other siblings so by the time I was old enough the idea never occured to me.
The friend would have some clue screw with one of us you screw all, which was intimidating enough to eliminate the issue outside of two siblings. Jun 24, 4, 0 0 Vancouver.
Tornado Condor Member Sep 17, Apr 13, 16, 51 1, Well i'm sure i could have dated my best friend's sister but it would be really awkward so i decided not to. Pellham Banned Sep 17, Jun 11, 6, 0 0. I don't care about my relatives so I wouldn't care. I've never had friends date any relatives though. Jun 7, 24, 30 1, 37 Illinois. I'm the baby of my entire family. The next closest cousin to me in age is my cousin Kirk who is 3 years older than me.
If anyone wants him they can have him. After that the next closest is around 9 years older than me.
My closest sibling is my brother Kevin who is 13 years older than me. Jul 24, 20, 0 0 Toronto.