You go through ups and downs and you learn to navigate through various obstacles to move forward. Dating someone older means they can provide you with some insights and different perspectives when you encounter something which can seem insurmountable. It can save you time and needless energy overthinking a problem and more importantly help you move forward quicker. Being with an older man can be a good balance for you especially in a world where things move at a hyper pace.
With maturity comes a greater appreciation for the little things in life and being with someone mature can help you learn to slow down, relax, and recalibrate. There might be a need to outdo one another when you are closer in age and achievements. When someone is older and because they are more established, they may not have the same need to compete with you. This age dynamic can dial back the immaturity of poor communication and ego-busting that can happen with someone that is closer to your age.
In fact, they may become your biggest cheerleader pushing you to levels you may not have felt you could accomplish. They had a life before you.
It can include past marriage s , relationships, kids, grandkids, etc. Navigating this in your relationship with an older man can take some patience on your part. You will also need to have clear parameters and communication with one another of what to expect for one another as far as their relationships with ex-wives, kids, etc.
It can provide you with clarity on his intentions, his relationship patterns, and help you determine if he is the right fit for you.
The past is generally a strong indicator of future behavior. He might be set in his ways. The older you get, with the comfort of knowing thyself, comes a comfort of doing things a certain way. When a man has had a level of success and is happy with the way he is, trying to break habits that might annoy you or introduce him to things outside of his comfort zone may not be so easy.
In a relationship where you mix someone a relationship of someone who is younger with someone older, if you are truly compatible, you can both learn and teach one another valuable lessons. He is more stable.
But, generally, if you are dating someone older, they should be more stable. They should have some level of consistency in their life as they should have been able to create a more solid foundation in their life.
This stability can be soothing versus dating someone who is still trying to figure out who they are, what they need to accomplish, and where they are heading. They help you to be more balanced. According to the U.
They generally do not date women in their own age bracket. Be ready to ditch the old geezer stereotype. You might be in for more of an adventure than you expected. Many men over 60 are still looking for hot, sexy women.
Every man has his own definition of what is hot and sexy. They rather settle quickly than date extensively.
I explain that few men take the time to process their feelings regarding a failed relationship, preferring to jump into the next one instead. They still want sex.