Dating 7 years older When I met my wife she owned her own home and had been at her job for more than a decade. She didn't need me in the least, and that made her pretty irresistible to me. Commitment is gonna be the biggest issue, particularly for the younger one. I dated someone whose daughter's only two years younger than me. I found it quite funny when he pressed me to commit to the 'relationship'. It's pretty mcuh like my dad tried to prevent me from dating other guys in high school.

If you don't want to settle down soon, make this crystal clear to her so she can adjust her expectation.

Great responses everyone - I guarantee you I'm not looking to have a 3-way or anything extremely hot and appealing like that. For the record, this person I'm seeing is pretty hot, so maybe it might be a bit of physical attractiveness?

Life is only as complicated as you make it or perceive it. Do what you want to do instead of what you think others want you to do. I graduated May in and this is my 3rd "girlfriend". I wasn't looking for one, but if one came along that'd be great. I just needed someone easy. I respect her privacy and she respects mine. I understand her situation, and she understands mine. I think that's the bottom line in this. Sorry, I made a mistake. You're not ready to get married. Nobody obsessed with Pokemon should think of getting married.

Well, unless she's into it. Is she into Pokemon? I went out with a couple of my friends to a local bar one time and we ran into a few older women. I got closer to one of them, saw her crow's feet, and left. Old women creep the hell out of me. As for the physical attraction, let no one fool you It was what made me attracted to her. I just went to a small dog park near our apt complex, let my dog in and she was there. I thought she was 27ish, by the looks, but we ended out talking and slowly our relationship picked up over time.

I randomly saw her at times in passing, she asked if I wanted to get wine, I asked about a place to eat, so on and so on I've never had much fear talking to girls, even when I get fat. I've seen my success with girls change drastically when I am not fat though lol.

Marriage is all about comparability. It would not matter that you are younger than her if two of you are very much compatible to each other. It is also true that when you are in love then your heart rule over your head. So it's totally up to you. If you are compatible with her then i do not find any problem to carry on. So yes I'm getting in a bit too deep: I love taking advice from online forums! I don't know about you, but I am not trying to have kids in my twenties I think you are misguided about keeping up with the kids when you are older.

My father had me when he was 40 and that was never a problem I mean he wasn't playing tackle football with me Also, I'm in good shape and plan on being in good shape my whole life Depends I guess how you look after yourself. I need a younger girl. Your saying girls get antsy around 30 to have a kid. I think this definitely is a generalization. I'm 27, female, dating a 40 year old and am in a similar situation, we are great for each other but having a kid is his priority and definitely not mine which is a major barrier For some reason, I don't get nervous and am actually pretty calm about approaching girls my age or younger.

But I get nervous as hell when I want to go for chicks older than me. I guess I subconsciously think that I'm already at a disadvantage for being younger, but is that really true? Are we talking cougars or girls in their 20s who are just older than you? For the latter, yeah, there's a disadvantage. Just lie if you think it'll help. Or ask how old she thinks you are, raise an eyebrow, and change the subject. Older chicks are awesome, they know what's up. I'll never date another chick in my age range again, total waste of my time.

At least five years older I'm yrs old. OKC did a nice statistical analysis that said the ideal male age preferred by women in aggregate is the late 20s. Ideal age for women is about Another nice tip they mentioned was the biggest indicator that a girl is open to a ONS is if they like beer. It levels it around to I believe, whereas the typical distribution is actually skewed against it.

I don't understand why cute chicks go on OKCupid. Aren't they propositioned like times a day in real life? I imagine there's a good portion that just loves the attention and doesn't actually date anyone. I'm guessing you're nervous because you want to fuck them and it's a new area for you. They usually love getting attention from younger guys. I've noticed most cougars or whatever you want to call them generally don't go for guys under their mids. Older chicks are easy. Most older chicks get insecure around younger more successful dudes - making them easy prey. It's more how old you look than how old you are, in my experience at least.

I'm 21 and I look 28ish. It has its benefits. I just hope I don't look old as fuck in 10 years. Like, older chicks don't care about your position in life. They just don't want to fuck someone who could be their son;s friend. Or maybe they do. I don't fucking know; I'm drunk on box wine. This reminds me I never wrote up my strategy on how I sleep with women in their 30s that I promised during Christmas. However, I think you probably have a better chance of banging one tonight than someone your own age, because there will be no pretension that it will be anything other than sex.

It's worth pursuing, you just have to stop being a huge pussy. And aren't you in a position to fuck pretty much whomever, whenver? Why are chicks in their 20s "older: This post kind of makes me sad. The older chicks you're describing are younger chicks to me. Chicks in their 30's aren't 'older' to me. Hence what makes me sad. You guys think a year old is an 'older woman'.

I think she's a young lady. I was thinking old as in diaper wearing old. Didn't realize we were going to be talking about year olds Just make sure that they are single because they are picky or busy at work and not because they are psychopathic. The trick is to find the one thing you can focus on that represents every other single thing you want in life. There just happens to be a larger number of crazy girls that are smart than stupid.

Of course, same applies for guys. Date no younger than: So I was just thinking about this because I have nothing better to do at the moment. This equation implies the following conclusions:. I think this makes some sense, if you assume that 14 is the turning point from 'kid' to 'young adult', given that is when one starts high school.

So if you've physically aged 10 years and are 24, she should have physically aged 5 years and be If you've aged 30 years and are 44, she should have aged 15 years and be They have a job, you don't. Therefore you are a loser in their eyes. They don't want to go out and pay for your shit. So unless you are a Lowell, Kennedy or similar. You are loser in their eyes. I didn't have this problem at your age because I had my own centurion card.

Follow the shit your fellow monkeys say shitWSOsays. Women in my age range have no fucking idea what's going on. They just can't hang. If something goes on at work, they think they have no time. The older women know what's up. They can handle more than one thing at a time because they've grown more than one brain cell in their time out in the real world.

Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming. I didn't make the equation, just reporting it. It is far from perfect, but works well enough for most ages where people are single adults. Or just use discretion like a normal human being. In what scenario does the equation trump discretion? If it's none, then why discuss an arbitrary equation.

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Or formula, I guess. I was just pointing out that wanting your girlfriend to have aged half as much since 14 is arbitrary. Practically speaking I think more than years difference on either side is a little weird. How old are you? You may think it's weird. The only really rich guy I know is my uncle and he's 41 and always with year-olds. I used to think it was weird. And it is weird in the sense that weird means unusual. But do you want to be usual? What's wrong with being unusual? When i'm 41, I'd like to be seeing girls the same age as I'm seeing now. Maybe like years older.

But if that's what you want, then so the fuck what? Has anyone release an "Is She Old Enough" app? And you could make an "Is he in your league? Or just stats about a dude or herself and it gives a score or whatever. We need to get some Asians and Indians on this. That's a really wide spread. Are you pretty unsure of the theoretical value of your actual age?

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Yo, guys, so I'm listening to some trap music, right? Original post by dan-dream-boys Well for me personally, it is unlikely I would date a woman 7 years older than me. Report 6 years ago 4. I think its because the women tends to get a bit desperate and needy because of that 'biological clock' thing. Report Thread starter 6 years ago 5. Report 6 years ago 6. Age wouldn't be a major factor, if i liked everything about her, why not. Report 6 years ago 7.

Original post by shinytoy if i was a 23 year old guy i'd bag a nice 18 year old girl tbh. Report 6 years ago 8. From what my dad says from personal experience of his , "older women only want to put a ring on your finger". Not interested in that kinda mentality tbh, and while I realise that not everybody is the same, I'd still not risk it for a biscuit just on the off chance that he's right.

I mean, there's older, and then there's older.

Report 6 years ago 9. Original post by shinytoy how long does it usually last roughly, before they realise age is an issue? Report Thread starter 6 years ago Original post by MancBoy Its usually when the woman gets desperate to settle down i. Report 6 years ago Original post by shinytoy assuming she said this wasnt an issue, would you believe her and date her? And although I do prefer maturer girls. I wouldn't see that sort of age gap as a problem however it depends on the girl. It would be a problem if she wanted to settle down but since I don't want to get married or have children this would be an issue with any age.

Women lose their looks with age. Their 20s, mid 30 are their prime years. It's part of the reason why the get so desperate with age. In their 20s, they have so many "requirements" to date someone. But as soon as they hit their late 30s, as long as they guy isn't bald and has a steady job, she'll be following you around like a puppy. Conversely, men age better and it's part of the reason why women date men years old than them.

It's sort of perverted in a way, but I'm not complaining. Original post by 2ndClass Hell no. Well my boyfriend is 4 years older than me and it works out fine as he is a guy he is pretty immature but also has made me mature, However if I was a 28 year old women, I would be thinking in terms of marriage and babies no doubt about it I wouldnt waste my time dating a guy at 29 if I didnt think it would result in marriage, the guys 23 the same age as my boyfriend and Im not for one minute saying all guys are the same but my boyfriend and his friends are no way near any sort of marriage age they still class themselevs as young and enjoy going out doing boys things.

Generally you would say it wouldnt work however if the guys willing to try and she is let them see. Rarely works long term I reckon.

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I know a few people from work where they married women like up to ten years older than them. Sounds cool when you are 20 and your wife is 30 but when you are 40 your wife is 50 and past the menopause. My cousin was nearly 28 and her boyfriend was 22 when they started going out and they've been together for nearly 3 years now.