I have never been married and did things wrong the first time and pray to God that he will help me to do things better. I have always wanted to get married and that was always my dream. I want to meet a Godly man. I want to be attracted to him as well. I did on line dating and the guys were nice and christian, but I was not physically attracted to them.
Does that make me a bad person. I want to be able to meet with other single mothers so that I can express some of my stress and have somebody that understands what I am going through. I am a single mother of a 2 year old son. He is the best gift that has ever happened to me However, I too oftenstruggle with the guilt and shame that came with being a Christian and a single parent. I was very involved in church when I became pregnant with my son.
I was going through a rough time and I ran to the wrong arms!
I would also like to see a support group for single parents in the church. If anyone knows of anything around the Central Texas area, please post it on this site! I am a Christian, single mother of a wondeful 6 year old daughter. She is the joy of my life. I do often struggle though with the management of time—still! Often times I feel selfish because I want and need my time. I play card games, we read together, watch movies together,…you name it, we do it. Pray for me as I continue to strive for balance in our lives. It would be really nice to meet other single parents!
I have two wonderful kids, 3 and 7. He has since moved in with his 19 year old girlfriend, This has all brought me closer to God, but also left a terrible wound in all of our hearts. We have had to move to Denver to get the help my son needs, which has further isolated us. His new school is working wonders and I am willing to go to the ends of the earth to get him what he needs, but we could sure use some Christian friends and prayers! I am a born again Christian. I have 3 children from age I am 25 years old and would say I am quite attractive.
The father of my children was abusive so I left him. I am celibate too which is hard because I feel like a total reject.
Whyw ould a decent christian man choosee to marry me rather than a virgin? How would I go about meeting someone who could fit all I am looking for? I am scared to be posting something on this site. I am a 55 year old solo parent to an 11 year old son. After years of failed infertility treatments, my husband left. A year later I adopted my son from birth—desperate to be a Mom but never dreaming how difficult single parenting was, especially a Mom raising a little boy.
I have had two boyfriends since my divorce.
I want to be able to meet with other single mothers so that I can express some of my stress and have somebody that understands what I am going through. That soul-mate will work with you to provide a safe environment for everyone and will want to join you in your efforts to raise your children in the best possible way! Back to Christian Connection. I am not a super woman. If He can do that, I know He has something special in store for the 4 of us. Understanding how these romantic developments affect everyone involved is key to being prepared for what lies ahead. Hi, I just came across this website tonight and felt like I should also tell my story in short form.
The first one I mistakenly allowed to become too close to my son. In the second relationship I was more careful. I have not dated seriously for five years. I am pretty, very young-looking, and have lots of girlfriends and platonic male friends. So I just guess that God has closed this door for me…and I have given up on online dating.
Now my son really wants me to date—to look for a father for him. And I am lonely. I could use even an email buddy guy with whom to chat about my son. I feel like I have tried everything. And sometimes I think my situation is a natural consequence of my decision to adopt as a solo parent—a decision that was unfair to my son. But I pray that God will not let my willfulness hurt my son. Over the past 10 years the one thing I have learned about being a happy single parent is aiming for balance. I have 1 son so I encourage his friends to come and play loads.
Most of their parents are married non-Christan couples who hardly ever return the favour but it has meant that he has company a lot of the time and stops him feeling like so much of an only child.
God always looks after us in the end. I looove my baby boy aloot! Ask Him to reveal that side of Him, He wil. I just love reading your comments. Jodi Christian Singles Blog Moderator. I am a single father of three, Growing up in a strict christian home, I learnd good values for the life that God had planned for me. When I began dating in junior and senior high I slowly straid away from the values and teachings of my pastor and family about putting God first in every dession I made. I put my own feelings ahead of what I knew God wanted for me. Im not saying I regret the choices I made while dating at my young age.
I know God has a plan for me. And I am making a promise to God tonight that I will be paciant and listen to His guidence more closely. Hi, I just came across this website tonight and felt like I should also tell my story in short form. I am a single mom, living in Texas with 2 wonderful teenage girls. Just today I have started feeling very discouraged about life. I know God will take care of us, but I dont want to spend the rest of my days without a father figure for my kids, and also without someone that will grow old with me.
I have tried online dating and it is very hard to find someone with the convictions that I have in this life. I am not sure what caused me to write this, maybe just to vent, idk. Good luck to everyone and your adventures. May God bless you all! I was in my local Christian bookstore this week looking for resources for Christian single parents. So, toinght I decided to look online to see what was out there.
Anyone else feel this way? Unmarried father of two. See my boys every other day. Nature gives biological parents with a few exceptions a fierce bond of enduring love with their offspring, a tool that assists invaluably in the act of raising and bearing with them, no matter how hard things get.
Foster and adoptive parents undergo substantial training and professional preparation, but as a step-parent, you must take on an unclear and tricky to navigate pseudo-parental role without any of this.
Be prepared to stand in a soggy field watching sports in the rain, to sit listening to a discordant band and eat dodgy home baking — and be prepared to feel your heart unexpectedly burst with pride and love for them too. It may not be easy, but it will be worth it. Tamarin Fountain trained and worked as a professional actress, before travelling the world in events and entertainment roles on board cruise liners. You can follow Tamarin on Twitter or read her blog here. Since the UK launch in , thousands of Christians have found friendship, love and marriage through the site. Want to write for us?
Once you know what it is you are looking for as single moms, you can prepare yourself to fulfill your goals. Make a plan based on your goal to meet that special man. Study where Christian singles meet other singles , and get ready to mingle. Keep all your options open along the way, and stay optimistic.
The Lord is for you, not against you. Related Christian Dating posts: I am 42 and a teacher-asst for headstart working on my AA. My dream is to own my own night care for working parents on second and third shift. Even though on paper my situation seems crazy, God has made my life and home one of love and laughter. I have had coucilling and was really happy just being with God. Then I met another Born again christian, who has been a great friend to me.
We began to realise we have strong feeling together. He is extremely respectful and we have both obtained from impurity and share a similar view on life. How long do we wait to be married, how do we conduct our relationship with the added complications? Be a woman first, mom second. Likewise when dating, show your date who is aware of your kids , that they do not rule your entire universe even if they do.